N’s Backstage: Behind the Scenes
November 14, 2007
I don’t always post about what I think about posting, there are a lot of ideas that I just disregard. Here are a couple of unmatured* ideas for blog posts I have thought about, but haven’t quite written a post for:
- Addictive personalities: Do you believe in such a thing? This isn’t a type of attraction, but a personality that you just need to be around or have around you.
- Excuses — way too common: I don’t feel like going out because… (fill out the blank) Too lazy, sleepy, too cold, too hot, too busy, too bored, too sunny, too dark, too windy, too noisy, too blah blah.
- Cashing in on Eid: Visiting family in Eid felt like cashing in on Vegas slot machines (or something like that). We got extra points for being around the family, to be enough for a year or so.
- Random: Food appreciation is proportional to the size of your tummy. Don’t pick on chubby people! (A friend disagreed since he loves food and has high metabolism!)
- Random: In anime, the main characters in high school mostly always sit next to the window.
- Random: The real reason men who aren’t supposed to wear Speedos, do. It is because it gives them a visual image of what they could/would be like. Lets call it, self motivation.
- The way you walk: What it says about your personality.
- Random: Dialogue argument between two people, disagreeing about the same thing, but from two different perspectives.
* Unmatured: A state of not being complete. It is not a real word, but should be.
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November 14th, 2007 at 9:03 am
Those are all interesting topics that make for interesting blog posts. With regards to the addictive personality, it’s a real thing in the psychology world, I happen to think I have an addictive personality.
My uncle makes fun of the way I walk and even wrote a song about it, he says I “twist”. Food appreciation is NOT proportional to the size of your waist, it’s the opposite actually. When you’re not appreciating your food you eat more and when you can appreciate you eat less. When I lost weight I appreciate food much more and can enjoy food and notice subtle differences more whereas when I was bigger and eating unhealthy it just all went down in globs.
November 14th, 2007 at 9:19 am
i also disagree with the food appreciation bit :)
as for the speedo, interesting theory !
November 14th, 2007 at 9:49 am
Uhm, sorry, Ms. Swair speaking: it’s “immature”, the “im” negates the “mature”.. exactly like how the “im” negates the “possible” in “impossible”…
November 14th, 2007 at 9:52 am
Pre-Mature?
November 14th, 2007 at 9:59 am
Asoom,
Oh, I didn’t know that those types of personalities were real! What do you mean twist? lol.
Yeah, the food thing is way off it seems!
Joud,
The speedo part was a way to have a positive look at things! I try not to concentrate on negative judgments.
Swair,
Yes Ms.!
Kaos,
That sounds better..
*mumbles.. grammar nazis! :p*
November 14th, 2007 at 10:15 am
hoenstly there are too many things to comment on! But I do agree in Anime all the highschool kids sit by the window! loool! And everybody leaves during Eid! I pick on fat people since I am one! loool!
November 14th, 2007 at 10:24 am
whatever u talk about is nice anyway… ;)
I believe it’s the way u write, more than the topic in itself that attracts so many people here.
Well, your choice of topics plays a role too :P
November 14th, 2007 at 10:51 am
I don’t pick on fat people a lot of my friends are. And chubby men are cute a9lan why pick on them. Anime characters need the window so they can stare out into oblivion n___n
Nice topics can’t wait till they mature :P
November 14th, 2007 at 10:57 am
All good questions!
One of your things is choice, and how one choice eliminates other choices. An addictive personality is likely not to believe he/she has a choice every time, but feels impelled/compelled to particular choices.
The question of how people walk is SO defined that the Beatles wrote a lingering song about it – Something in the Way She Moves. It probably relates to a very primitive part of our brain, where we recognize “family” on the basis of familiar ways of moving/tracking. Maybe?
November 14th, 2007 at 11:11 am
:p … …. …. leaves footprints ( too deep to leave any comments)
November 14th, 2007 at 11:15 am
Marzouq,
lol! No one stays in the country anymore hehe.
Sarah,
Thanks a lot ^_^
Vixen,
Even chubby women are cute! ;P Oh, I think this is as far as they’re maturing!
Intlxpatr,
So are we sometimes compelled to be around that same person regardless? Oh this is interesting!
Grey,
lol! Thats OK. You’re welcome to say anything, as random as it may be!
November 14th, 2007 at 12:05 pm
I don’t agree that food appreciation has to do with the size of the waist. I LOVE FOOD like no other person, and i appreciate good food, BUT thank god, i’m actually pretty small.
Excuses – I don’t feel like going out because my feet are numb. Or I don’t want to meet you because I have an appointment to wash my hair :P
Addictive Personality – Ur talking about a person that you have to/really want to be around? One of my friends is like that, has one of the most fun personalities ever, I love her to death. Actually a lot of my friends are like that, I surround my self with happy/fun people does so much for my nafsiya.
There is also a case of having an “addictive personality” in which ppl believe that you are more prone to getting addicted to something. I don’t know.
Eid – I have not seen the extended side of my fathers family since before i left to college. Its been almost 6 years or so. I don’t think they will recognize me anymore.
November 14th, 2007 at 12:43 pm
Chirp,
I admire that! Being small and being able to appreciate food and eat much, I wish I was like that :p I tend to control my appreciation lol.
lol! More excuses!
Yeah, I get what you mean with the friends! They’re rare though!
I think they would, especially if they’re older. They can always tell!
November 14th, 2007 at 4:04 pm
I am an addictive personality I guess, I love your posts N…
November 14th, 2007 at 5:36 pm
i believe i have a very bad Addictive personality
November 14th, 2007 at 7:00 pm
chika,
Thanks chika! You’re sweet.
Laialy,
I know what you mean :/ With obsessive tendencies (OK, that’s the dark side.. isn’t it!)
November 14th, 2007 at 8:00 pm
glad that you wrote them down ! ;P
YEAH !! there are those people that you just cant get enough of , and love being around them !
hate excuses or that I sometimes have to justify myself to anyone .. hate it .. speaking of which , my friend , God ! she is the Queen of all excuses ! she can literally get away with almost everything !
oh yeah its such a burden !! I hate it ! I feel like first day of eid is so boring , you have to gooo knock each door , kiss every single cheek , oh man .. say the exact same words all over again :D
hate food ! love coffee ;P that was random enough wasn’t it ;P
LOVE ANIME !!!! love domuji !
ummm no comment ;P
sometimes it says about whether your really tired and sleepy or all excited !!
love it .. and hate it in the same time ! I mean there are those people who wont let it go till your fully convinced in their point .. but C’mon , it wont happen ! I mean whole world cant agree on one thing !! no way in frigging hell !
November 14th, 2007 at 8:03 pm
I would really like it if you’d post on Addictive personalities and the way we walk (how it reflects our personalities)…those 2 topics are very interesting!
and the whole idea of blogging is to make sense of vague ideas, so get to it N. and enlighten us;P
November 14th, 2007 at 8:55 pm
lone.rangeress,
I’m also interested in these subjects, they will require some research which I would do gladly, but we’ll see! ;P
November 14th, 2007 at 9:24 pm
Navy Girl,
Your comment went in the spam again, what did you do? :/ Or say? Hmm.. you were saying things haa..
lol @ kiss every single cheek! Thats the best part :p You just do it, and there is no speaking involved, and ppl smell good in eid! (In no way is this a fruity comment.. just in case ppl would assume [people are quick to judge])
Yeah that was lol, I stopped drinking coffee, yalla stop you too.
November 14th, 2007 at 9:37 pm
Addictive personalities do exist in my life;p
November 14th, 2007 at 10:20 pm
ast one is very philosophical yet true to some distant…and bout the way you walk…not only the way you walk..everything…specially el na’9ra..many people make plastic surgery bs when u look at them you can know them from their na’9ra..
ok hon ..Have nothing to say on the rest !!!
November 14th, 2007 at 11:47 pm
I have an addictive personality. ;/
November 15th, 2007 at 2:16 am
N, I’m really not sure what “twist” means, I’m still trying to figure it out, you’re going to have to ask my uncle.
November 15th, 2007 at 3:26 am
I guess it can get really bad :/ especially since i am stressed a lot and it might be due to a lot of addictions ehe ehe this is no fun .. i need some happy pills
November 15th, 2007 at 6:10 am
Amethyst,
I’m guessing thats a good thing? ;P
desert-roses,
Yeah! You know, they say that depending on how you move your eyes, and what you’re looking at, it triggers part of the brain. So if you’re remembereing something from the past.. you will most probably be looking up to the left..! amazing!
EniGma,
That kind of addictive personality isn’t good :/ I never knew you were addicted to something? What are you addicted to? donuts ?:p
Asoom,
I would ask if I got the chance! I haven’t done my research yet on the topic, but I’m sure there would be an explanation of a “twist” walk there somewhere :)
Laialy,
Hhehe, yeah.. oh, those happy pills do wonders, o_O hook me up if you get some (under the table..) I used to take “stress free” tabs, I dunno the exact name, but I should find them.. I think now is the time to take them at this age, instead of at 18 lol!
November 15th, 2007 at 12:32 pm
new info…I kept pretending as if I remembering something o ashoof where my eyes go ..loooooooool.. now mara7 a5ale9 mn hal subject ela after years…DON”T TELL ME NEW INTERESSTING THINGS..I AM THE WORST ANALYZER EVER!!! loool :P
ok lama ashof el result I will tell you how true you are… :P ..bs t9ade8 chena ma 3liay el ma3loma…
so this morning while I was heating the care, beside the house where I live….I was thinking of the most remarkable looks that I wont forget….
Here is the list:
Awal wa7da..Mine..I have tatni7a 3ageba..that always stuck to my face..and with that baby face I have..lool ppl always think that eni dumb know nothing..ma3arf shay..they don’t expect things from me…weird that one of my childhood friend has it too…Its annoying I didn’t realize how ppl think of me ela when I saw her..
sec one: is a na’9ra from a girl I know with my same major, you know when u come to talk to her she speaks o chenha metla5be6a 5ayfa mn something..o you know that action when u get to lie about a thing u han’t prepared for..o you began to stutter and sweat…she does not but still gives you feeling of that…
third look: is from a girl ..I took aclass with once..I don’t even know her name..she has a look ..hmm like…ignorance one…each time you see her u feel that she wants to escape from you..lool
I know many ps hathila 7adhom special :D
November 15th, 2007 at 12:56 pm
Hmm, interesting Post n. Good things to write about..
I feel insecure sometimes I feel it shows on my walk I don’t know why. In gatherings for example I seem to hide myself I don’t know why.. I am better now though..
I love food too but there are days when all day it’s chocolate it’s really bad..
November 15th, 2007 at 2:17 pm
im sure (some) will make good topics
and by the way, im an addictive personality :p
November 15th, 2007 at 2:20 pm
Addictive personalities: Good Topic
Excuses: Could be a fun topic
Cashing in on Eid: I’m too old to get money anymore :( i dont want to hear about it. It will just get on my nerves for getting too old
Food appreciation: Not sure what you want to write about this…
Anime: Umm….
Speedos; Thats more of a joke than a whole post…
The way you walk: I dont like any of these whatever you eat/how you sleep/how you walk/what color youre into represents your personality. I think its all crap.
Disagreement; Would be interesting depending whether you can make it an interesting topic or otherwise
November 15th, 2007 at 4:26 pm
Good and bad: depends on the personality I’m addicted to;p
November 15th, 2007 at 5:55 pm
I just can’t get seem to get enuff of the word “unmatured” which you have coined. Makes me feel that way abt myself alot whenever I look into the mirror.
November 15th, 2007 at 6:16 pm
seriously? are they off the counter or prescription?
November 16th, 2007 at 9:33 am
desert-roses,
LOL! Don’t think about it, you will go crazy :p The thing is mostly it happens unconsciously, so if you’re thinking about it then it will not be real you know!
lol nice info 3ala el nathraat! shay 3ajeb ;P It is true.. I’ve seen similar to those quite a bit.
Shayouma,
Yeah, the way we behave has a lot to do with our own psychosis! Yes it is really bad to eat chocolate all day! hehe.
Ammar,
lol! ya entaa :P Even though some topics are good I don’t think I will write about them. Btw, the cashing on eid was not about the cash! I haven’t gotten any cash for a long time. I made 10 KD this eid though haha. The cashing in was about gaining “reputation” or “social” points with the families!
Amethyst,
Give me examples!
Provoked,
You’re saying your looks are unmatured? Ohh.. explain plz!
Laialy,
I think they were over the counter, I will try to get you more information about them.
November 17th, 2007 at 2:58 am
you !! how many times did you SPAM ME !!! LOL ! i’m no spam no more ;P see kany i’m over here !!
oh and stop coffee mee ?? no way in hell !! :D
and i hate it ! i hate it .. huh i get tired kissing everyone !! :D
November 17th, 2007 at 6:27 am
Navy Girl,
Hehe, I’m glad you’re back here again! I hate seeing your comment in the spam with all the other dirty spam mail :/
lol, tired of kissing everyone? Take a break and keep going lol!
November 17th, 2007 at 10:09 pm
moby aint no going kissing no one anymore lol ! :D
November 18th, 2007 at 5:50 am
Navy Girl,
:P